There are big-picture challenges all around us: a difficult economy, a heated national election, impending holiday gatherings, holiday shopping, and holiday cooking to look forward to.
Then there are everyday challenges – the difficult colleague you’re working with on a project, your child’s difficulties in math or spelling, that occasional clunk you hear when you put your car in gear.
Life is filled with stressors – and today’s the day to recognize that fact, and consider how we handle the stressors that come our way.
- Step one: figure out how much stress you’re really living with. Try this Stress Screener from Mental Health America.
- Understand where your stress is coming from. Are you overwhelmed by thoughts of how the election results will impact your life, the nation, the world? Try taking a step back. Reduce your news intake and take a break from social media for a week. Focus on the positive aspects of your life, and on enjoying healthful activities like preparing a fun meal or going for a walk. Re-calibrate your focus!
- Add some new items to your to-do list – activities that will help you relax. Some suggestions: set a reminder on your phone to do a breathing exercise morning, mid-day, and evening; watch a guided meditation video on YouTube; make time before bed to do a series of gentle stretching exercises; start a gratitude journal to shift your focus to all the positive things happening in your life; make time for gentle exercise or simply spending time outdoors; make time for another activity that you enjoy!
- Keep an eye on your sleep schedule. Try to go to bed and wake up at roughly the same time each day – and aim for at least seven hours of sleep. (This also means you need to keep an eye on your caffeine and alcohol intake, which can interfere with your sleep.)
- Focus on nurturing existing relationships, and potentially starting new ones. A network of caring friends and family with whom you can chat about your good and bad times, and with whom you can relax and be yourself, can make a huge difference.
- Talk with your supervisor about initiating some stress reduction activities at your job. What about a voluntary lunchtime yoga gathering, a casual potluck of healthy dishes, or a regular message to the team inviting them to take five minutes for a breathing exercise or series of stretches?
- Remember, stress can be a good thing! When missing a fear component, stress can push you to try something new and get out of the comfort zone. Once that activity – asking for a raise, planning a party, preparing for a trip – is behind you, you may want to feel that “high” of positive stress again. So don’t turn stress into a four-letter word! Focus on managing your negative stress, and enjoy the positive stress that helps you grow!
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